All Outta Rooves

Today is another headache day which is tragic as I was hoping to get back on track today, things continue to slide. BLEH. I am actually sort of keeping up. My cleared spaces are remaining cleared and I’m keeping up with laundry and dishes. That’s just all I can ask of myself right now. I’ll have to make dinner and go get the farmshare as well so that is plenty to do when I’m feeling this way. I want to make more progress but I have reached the city limits.

For those that might not know, I suffer from frequent (almost daily) headaches and from mostly controlled migraines, I have been on daily medication to keep my migraines away (mostly) for YEARS. Lately I have been trying to fight my headaches without resorting to acetaminophen as much as possible because my liver has some sort of issue. I drink lots of water, sleep regularly as best I can, and use heating pads and ice packs. It, my life, used to be much worse. This morning I took some meds. They haven’t worked yet. I still attended the ComCat webinar and answered a bunch of work emails so Go Me.

We all have our burdens, am I right? Yeah, it’s tough getting through some days without going on some kind of pain-related spree but I keep trying. I wanted today to be super productive. I wanted to declutter one or two more areas, get some more regular chores done and spend time reading. I’m down to: maybe I can watch an episode or 2 of Vera tonight. I hope you are all having a better day than I am. XXOO

Housework Intensifies

Yeah, so, being home 24/7 for 3 months didn’t cause me to magically whip my house into shape. 3 1/2 months of just me leaving the house for part time work didn’t help me to magically whip my house into shape either. I have finally come to the conclusion that I may need an actual plan, I may need to make a schedule for various chores and even slot in some vague times of day in order to get things done. I made a list this morning of all the things I’d like to get done today and then I scheduled them throughout the day. So far today I have:

  • Made tea and breakfast
  • fed cats
  • changed our sheets
  • run a load of washing
  • filled out school paperwork for our son
  • rescheduled a dentist appointment ….And…
  • Written a sympathy card for my cousin

I still have to:

  • Plan dinner
  • water plants
  • clean cat boxes
  • pick up prescriptions
  • make lunch… And…
  • Hand a load of washing

For longer term/ongoing goals I Really want to declutter in a major way. We simply have too much stuff that is here for no good reason at all. Just so, so much stuff. I mean, the house isn’t like anything you’re seen on “Hoarders” but it’s cluttered and some parts are really disorganized. It’s tough to know where to start, really, but I think I might go back to basics and start with Flylady http://flylady.net/ again. It’s such a gentle system, starting out with just cleaning one’s kitchen sink and progressing from there. It’s helped me in the past when I’ve let things get out of control though I do tend to drop it after a bit when my inner whimsy balks at the structure. I find a lot of value in a few of her ideas:

  1. You can do anything for 15 minutes. (set a timer and do a chore for 15 minutes, stop when the timer goes off and move on to something else. You can return to the original chore later.) Set a timer on the next chore for 15 minutes… etc.
  2. The last 15 minutes of every hour are yours. Take a break! Stop and drink some water or tea/coffee, read or call a friend. Get back to chores when 15 minutes are done.
  3. When decluttering there are only 3 options for each item: 1. Keep it (and put it away) 2. Give it Away 3. Throw it Away. Find a box/bin/laundry basket and sort all the items into them. (1 for each: Keep/Give/Toss!) Very helpful to sort this way and then… Follow Through!
  4. Shun Perfectionism. Doing some cleaning is a lot better than none! So run your vacuum quickly over the high traffic areas and don’t bother moving the furniture if you don’t have time. Do half the dishes! Wipe the worst of the muck out of the fridge, fold the laundry even if you don’t have time to put it away! Basically, anything you actually DO will make you feel a little better and improve things a little bit so go ahead and do what you can manage, it will help.

Those are my favorite ideas of hers, probably imperfectly interpreted, please check our her website for the real information. There’s also the idea of ‘habits’ how getting into a routine or schedule gives one the inertia to keep going, cleaning chores become automatic. I’m not sure I’ve ever gotten to that point but it would be pretty cool if I did. Imagine the cleanliness. ^_^ I’m going to start today with one area and post before and after pics.